Out of my hiatus just to write about this movie. We knew it would happen ;)
I
went to see Five Feet Apart today. By
myself. I had no desire to see it with
anyone, no not even Peter, sorry babe. I
needed to see it alone.
If
you aren’t sure what I am talking about, and haven’t heard of the movie, here is
a brief synopsis. It’s a movie about two
teens with CF who fall in love in the hospital.
And the movie is about them taking back one foot of the requisite 6 feet
that us CFers need to keep between ourselves and others with CF. It’s the first time CF is a feature in a major
motion picture. Claire Wineland was a
consultant for the movie – she was a huge presence in the CF world until her death,
after transplant, last year.
It
was a great movie. I don’t think it was
overly sad (some people will disagree with me, but it was what I had expected). More tears were shed at the previews before
the movie (OMG another dog’s life movie!) than for the actual feature. It was a romantic drama that happened to have
two main characters with CF. If it isn’t
your genre of movie you probably won’t like it, CF or not. I probably still would have seen it even if
it focused on Cancer or Autism or anything else because I like these types of
movies.
I should elaborate a little on the not crying part. I think over the years I have become pretty jaded with CF. Friends pass away and I cry for a day and then I move on. It's how I deal. So I think some of that rubbed off on this movie. The next time I see it, I will most likely cry some more.
I should elaborate a little on the not crying part. I think over the years I have become pretty jaded with CF. Friends pass away and I cry for a day and then I move on. It's how I deal. So I think some of that rubbed off on this movie. The next time I see it, I will most likely cry some more.
There
were some things that were all “OMG why are they talking about that or showing
that” etc. But you have to remember that
not everyone knows WHAT CF is. Many people
haven’t a clue. So there had to be some
backstory to it. There had to be a lot
of explaining so people out the “outside” know what is going on. And they explained a lot. Not all, but a lot.
My
expectations were fairly neutral given the nature of the movie. I knew it
wouldn’t be spot on, its Hollywood people.
But all things considered I think they did a bang-up job with it. Were there inaccuracies? Of course, like I said, it’s Hollywood. Did they exaggerate a lot of things? Of course, again, It’s Hollywood. But the feel of CF I think they came close to
nailing on the head.
When
you get to the point where CF has taken everything from you, your friends, your
job, your freedom, you live to do your treatments, as Stella (and Claire) says. Your life revolves around your health. You miss out on so much being sick or being
in the hospital. They really showed this
in the movie. Maybe it was just me
knowing how they felt, but I think they portrayed it well. They dealt with survivor’s guilt, loneliness,
fear before a procedure, isolation, rebellion, mortality, friendship, losing a friend with
CF, missing out on life, not wanting to drag someone else into your “mess”
(that one hit home the most for me and it’s still something I struggle with to
this day), and of course, love.
The
movie was far from perfect as so many “sick” movies are. They have to keep the audience’s
interest. If one wants to see a documentary
on CF they can. This surely was not
one. But no matter what people may think
of this movie, it will do one thing: bring light to a disease that is not well
known. For us in the CF world, it is everything. But for those who know no one with it, it is
nothing. And this movie has the
potential to change that.